What does a stay-at-home mom do all day? Good question. I'm going to jot down everything I do today, to show you what's typical. This could be long - maybe you should go get a snack.
5:00 am - Samuel wakes up early. I listen to him scream for 15 minutes, then get up, change him, and bring him to bed with me. He hugs me.
5:45 - He is still awake, so I go get him a sippy cup of milk. At least he'll be quiet, and maybe I can get a few more minutes of sleep.
6:05 - He's not quiet anymore. He keeps poking me in the face and saying "Ma! Ma!" I take him to his room. He screams.
6:15 - Sally gets up and tells me she'll go sing to Samuel. I thank God for her and go to sleep.
6:30 - My alarm goes off. I hit snooze.
6:40 - My alarm goes off. I get up, get Sally cereal, start coffee. I get the dog out of the garage, turn on the dryer for 15 minutes (last night's load is still in there) and grab a basket. I feed the dog and put him outside. I make myself a cup of coffee (ahh) and make Sally's lunch. I pick out Sally's outfit and tell her to get dressed. I kiss Stuart goodbye and tell him to have a good day.
7:00 - I get a shower, get dressed, change Samuel's diaper, get him dressed. I brush Sally's hair and put it in a ponytail. I tell her to brush her teeth and find a jacket. I finish getting myself ready. I load the empty basket with dirty clothes, and put it by the door to the garage.
7:40 - We walk Sally to school.
8:10 - I return home with Samuel; I bring in the empty garbage cans (yesterday was trash day) and the newspaper.
8:12 - I let myself blog for 5 minutes. (yeah - creative freedom!)
8:17 - I set up the pack and play (playpen) because Mia is coming today and make my bed. I stop Samuel from cleaning the toilet. I start a new load of laundry. I change Samuel's diaper - this takes me awhile, because it is down both legs and he needs new clothes.
8:40 - I fold the clothes that I washed yesterday and put them away. I play with Samuel, chase him around the house a bit, kiss him, tickle him. I give him a banana and more cheerios and another cup of milk.
9:30 - Samuel goes to bed for an early nap. I make myself an omlette (brunch for today since I missed breakfast) and enjoy the quiet.
9:45 - Mia arrives. I play with her for a bit, tickle her, hug her. She's such a sweetie!
10:00 - Mia goes to bed for a nap. I clean up the kitchen, put the laundry in the dryer, talk to Stuart on the phone. I do some paperwork for Sally's teacher.
10:45 - I take a blog break and check my email. I make a few phone calls.
11:00 - I wake up the kiddos, load them into the stroller, and go get Sally from school.
11:30 - Back home! I start Sally on her homework, change Samuel's diaper, get Mia some lunch, get Sally some lunch, find Samuel and give him some lunch. My sister calls, so I talk to her while I feed the kids. I get the glitter gels for Sally to finish decorating her turkey feather for school tomorrow. I help Sally fix her glitter because she has it too thick and it will never dry. I clean up the kids and their lunch. I set up a fan to dry Sally's feather. I put Samuel's carseat back together - this takes me awhile because it is complicated (it had to be washed and air-dried, so all the straps are off) and because he keeps helping me. I change Mia's diaper. I tell Sally to pick up her shoes. I get Samuel out of the carseat (he's stuck).
12:55 - I reward myself with 5 mins. of blog writing & reading. My 5 minutes are cut short because Samuel needs to be changed - Sally informs me he smells bad.
12:58 - I change Samuel's diaper. I play with Mia and Samuel in his room. Sally wants to do a puzzle, so we pick one out and get it set up.
1:30 - I put Mia and Samuel to bed for an afternoon nap. Sally and I work on the puzzle and watch "Hercules".
2:30 - Mia is up already. We play with her. We have an afternoon snack. I clean up the kitchen.
3:45 - Samuel gets up. I get him a snack, change Mia's diaper, help Sally with her computer. I unload the clothes in the dryer and start folding. I go and hang up a few shirts, and I put the playpen away. Mia and Samuel have followed me, and Samuel goes right for my toilet brush. I help him clean it, since he loves it, and we go finish the folding.
4:45 - Mia's dad comes and picks her up. Sally wants to play playdough, so we get it out. This is Samuel's first time. He loves it. I play with them for awhile. Stuart calls, and I talk to him while I clean up the playdough mess and Sally and Samuel watch an episode of SpongeBob. I start dinner - we always have leftovers on Thursdays because it's Stu's softball night, and I never know if he's going to eat here or after his game. So dinner's pretty easy tonight. I make some soup for the kids and feed them. I eat a salad. Stuart gets here and we eat together. We all relax and watch some tv. I want to watch a movie I TiVo-ed earlier today, so I send Stuart and Sally to our room to watch some Jackie Chan movie they are into, and I watch "Alex & Emma", a sappy but entertaining love story. I play with Samuel while I watch - I set up the blocks and he knocks them down. Then we play a little catch. I have to stop the movie twice to change Samuel. He ends up falling asleep on me.
8:30 - I carry Samuel to bed, and find that Sally has fallen asleep on my bed. Stuart puts her to bed and takes off for his softball game. I channel surf for a bit, then start cleaning up the family room. Toys, clothes, mail, cups of milk - they all seem to reproduce in this room. I go change into jammies, and wonder why I am so tired and have accomplished so little today.
9:30 - Post my last blog and talk to my sister on the phone for a bit. My last thing to do tonight is to clean the kitchen and get ready for bed. Hopefully I'll get to read a little before I go to sleep. I'm pretty tired though . . . .
3 comments:
ahhhh...the joys of motherhood! there's little time for adulthood!!!!
Real life. It is so nice to read your post and feel "not alone."
The purpose driven life...keep 'em fed, clothed, (clean), and happy. :)
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